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The children desperately need our attention and often go to victims. A creature will survive much strokes better than neglect. Can cope with being abused, but can not bear to be ignored.

This will be our major weapon to change the inappropriate behavior, playing with their need for attention to get them to behave as we want. That is, when do we want, we will ignore them, playing with them, going to movies, letting us have your stuff .. they do not want them to do, completely ignore them because this is actually the worst punishment.

Ignoring a child can be a daunting task . It looks easy, it is done as if not exist, as if we heard or saw them, but it's so complicated in practice you need specialist training to become a teacher because the kids try all kinds of tricks to distract us from yelling in his ear, mourn and we must tread carefully lest we get out of hand the situation. Remember that ignoring is a terrible punishment, therefore never be used alone, always in combination with attention and always for short periods of time. Do not stop to talk to a child for long periods of time, because they create an excessive anxiety, is also a double-edged sword, for they too, as in adolescence, they can to withdraw the floor as punishment.

is particularly important to learn to ignore the tantrums, especially in public, very loud and attract much attention from others so try to avoid giving in, but this is counterproductive because if we give in to blackmail ( otherwise it is not) we are lost. So we are forced to endure the rain, knowing that turn blue when shouting is not important, they can get to lie on the floor, pounding it with close, tell us not love us, and even vomiting.

have to educate the child victim and not go to know that if the victim will get nothing. today must be taught to over life in any relationship you have, whether from friends, family or couple, who is no conflict, tensions, injustices, forgetting important things , lack of attention ... do not leave victim. If the trend is to take it in "Plan of victim" is going to suffer, and is going to suffer greatly.

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victim may be the way to draw attention to the other, to make us more attention, we want more. But to complain and complain believe in the other a reaction against the desired, or as expected, did not think it made us all, or shame and blame him for something that is unfair.

We do not have to be victims of one of his bad temper, and tend to "go to victims" as a form of communication with others.

We have the right to be happy and enjoy life without unnecessary suffering. So get to work.